I cannot be alone

First off, I havent written a blog for so long (and never on this site) I apologise in advance if it turns out to be some odd rambling!

I have been on Xhamster for a very long time now, but not as long as some. I am very fortunate in having some really good friends on here who are active participants, which is great for the support of this site. I also have plenty of friends who dont have any content what so ever. Now, I dont necessarily have a problem with that either but have recently specified that if a potential friend has nothing, not even a favourite, I wont accept them as a friend. I certainly dont get too animated about it.

I have noticed that some people on here get quite aggressive about such things. Is it really worth getting so stressed about it? Just chill and go with the flow. For those that choose not to have any content, dont get upset when your friend request is rejected. For those that dont want to accept requests from those that dont have any content, just decline the request and block if necessary. I really cannot see the point in getting too worked up about it as life is far too short.

I think my only frustration is when you click the friends tag and you dont get anywhere because there are over 100 requests outstanding. If getting more friends isnt your cup of tea, just change the settings to not accepting firends, simples!

There you go, told you it would be a bit of an odd rambling!
เผยแพร่โดย monty690
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This post is ancient but here goes anyway...

If they have no personal videos, pictures or posts of their own... it's a decline with no explanation from me. If I get a message with anything on the lines of ..."Hi", "How are you?", it's a block. If they have favourites which are right for me, I'll accept. I have a hetero and gay account. If a hetero wants to friend my gay account, it's a no, other way round, no problem. 

Simple really :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:
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maineolder
TY for the good advice, will do.
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No shortage of knobheads on here - just like real life !
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Lifes too short your dead right
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alibodge
once i would have agreed with you , but since then i have learnt the hard way, if they havent content, or cant be bothered with an avatar.. chances are now that its a hacker...
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Agreed!
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mavuk1
Agreed. Sharing content shouldn't be a problem. If you don't want to friend, subscribe ! Hate passwords. Whats the point ? Do think people should comment before requesting friendship.
I personally only block people who comment negative ( on anyone's content) Why put people off posting ???? Strange that it's mostly members with no or little content. ( ok ranting finished . Lol ). Cheers
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I agree. It's why I don't have a fetlife profile any more. Too full of idiots and nasty bitches stirring up crap over nothing.
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brock3
WOW! You hit the nail right on the head
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Great advice
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NiceGuyJoey93
I totally agree. Some people take things too seriously when this site is just to be about friendship and pleasure. Everyone has their different likes and dislikes but the great thing about Xhamster is if you don't like something you can easily find what you do like in a click. :wink:

Have a good day and stroke/wank!
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nice
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I'm totally agree with you and i have the same problem sometime
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